Ch.3 Q#3

The concept that I chose to talk about is passive-aggressive communication, I found this to very interesting concept that I somewhat knew about but, this chapter allowed me to further have a better understanding. So to explain as stated in the book, passive-aggressive communication can be somewhat of a blind, affective message. For example I can make you think that im avoiding conflict, and accommodating to that other person, but in all actuality I would be having the intention of hurting that person. This is a very devious scheme that I have dealt with in my life before. When I was in high school I had a "friend" and this person made me believe that they were all about me, and would openly agree with me in certain situations, only to find out that this person, was trying to get close and get all the information they could from me to turn it on me, and not only stab me in the back, but ruin what I thought was a great friendship. This person used many ways to get to me, to find a way to hurt me. I think that people that do this purposely are terrible people.